Monday, March 13, 2006

Daily Tots

True Life Story (tell me hw u feel)

tis guy & gal were a couple for 10 over yrs..they knew each other since they were teenagers..paktor for sm yrs..got married & hab kids of their own..but den nw..they're gettin a divorce..sad story huh??

guy's version

gal left him aft so many yrs juz to seek her own freedom in life..she chooses her frenz over him..she dun lik to get tied dw & stil cant committed to parenthood..he cried so badly for her askin her to stay..aft couple of mths later..he gt over her..

gal's version

guy had a gal buddy..let's name her "it" here..they're real close frenz..

"it" was intro a nite job by guy.."it" bcame his regular passenger..they were supper buddies even aft "it" quit her job..guy always say he cant send wife hme or hab dinner wif her cos iz his "golden time"..yet he can hab occasional kopi sessions wif "it" during his "golden time"..

durin his off days or occasionally wen guy picks up his wife aft wrk.."it" always calls him or sms him..guy either picks up once in front of wife tryin to show there's nuttin between them or either dun ans her calls & says iz a male fren callin..wen guy picks up her calls or sms durin his off day..he either walks away to reply or ans "it" calls..

guy told wife he wana arrange chalet getaways wif family..nvr once succeed cos he cant take leave if nt income wil be affected..cant take off days to spend time wif wife oso cos wil affect income..cant go out on off days cos rarely hab enuff rest so usually stay at hme..nw wife is onli gone for a couple of mths..guy goes out on off days wif "it"..guy takes leave fm wrk to go chalet wif family & "it"..

Comments on the below:

wife nvr seen "it" ever since guy noe her..kopi gatherings wif "it" & frenz nvr involve wife..if wife happens to tag along.."it" nvr shows up..

wife left d hse less den 2 wks.."it" turns up at hse on pretext of givin x'mas presents to guy's kids..wad d hell is tis??

guy & wife yet separated nor divorce..wife happens to call guy wantin to tok to their kid.."it" picks up d call instead..wad d fark is tis??

guy nvr attend his wife's company functions or frenz parties cos he shy dunno them den will feel uncomfortable..wife no choice but to accept d fact..aft wife left him..he attended a x'mas party wif "it" to "it" mgr's hse..halo..guy dunno d mgr so y he go??den who is tis guy to "it" wen she attends her mgr's x'mas party..usually u'll onli bring ur immediate family to attend ur boss's parties..so wad nonsense is tis??

guy always scolds wife bitch wen she brings kids out wif male fren..den hw come he can always bring the kids out wif "it"??nw who is d bitch here??

guy nvr appears for his own famili outings..wife always goes outings wif his famili..nw wife nt ard..guy arranges famili outing & brings "it" along..who d fark is she??

guy kips sayin he luvs wife alot alot alot..den y issit he spent more time wif "it" & can actually make arrangements to take leave & spend time together wif his family wif "it"??nw does tis show he luvs d wife alot??

dun make excuses say tis "it" was there for him wen he was dw aft his wife left him..d "it" was there since d wife was pregnant..d wife hated her existence but d guy is so insensitive & cant feel wife's fustrations..

in life..esp in relationships..if it breaks dw..both parties r to b blamed..iz either lack of communication or miscommunication..

salvage ur relationship while u can..dun wait until iz over den u start blamin d other party..

guy ever says tt his heart is in terrible pain cos of his wife leaving him..he's deeply hurt by her..wife juz wana tel him..she's equally hurt nw..

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